Attention Overwhelmed Parents
See How The Logsdon Family Built Their Family Vision
How To Create A Family Vision
The 5 Things Every Parent Can Do Right Now To Raise a Child to Adulthood
...and how you can use the same system to create clarity and a roadmap for you family!
...and how you can use the same system to create clarity and a roadmap for you family!
FROM: Scott Beebe
DATE: December 14, 2018
DATE: December 14, 2018
Dear Fellow Parents,
If you have great dreams and ideas for you and your children, and don’t feel like you know how to implement them,
Or if you’re at the point where you feel like your parenting is a series of responses just trying to hold the family together…
Then I want you to stop being distracted by everything going on around you just for a minute and make sure you read through this entire, heart felt letter right now because…
In a minute, I’m going to share with you the 3 Steps every parent must do to begin raising and training great kids so…
-You can stop being so scattered
- You can stop saying YES to everything
-You can be free from the FEAR OF MISSING OUT...FOMO!!
Here is the beauty of the system; it is more about implementation (JUST DOING IT!) than it is about coming up with just the right tactic.
It takes time, intentionality, and conversation. The clarity in your mind, and the hope in your child’s eyes will make it all worth it!
If you have great dreams and ideas for you and your children, and don’t feel like you know how to implement them,
Or if you’re at the point where you feel like your parenting is a series of responses just trying to hold the family together…
Then I want you to stop being distracted by everything going on around you just for a minute and make sure you read through this entire, heart felt letter right now because…
In a minute, I’m going to share with you the 3 Steps every parent must do to begin raising and training great kids so…
-You can stop being so scattered
- You can stop saying YES to everything
-You can be free from the FEAR OF MISSING OUT...FOMO!!
Here is the beauty of the system; it is more about implementation (JUST DOING IT!) than it is about coming up with just the right tactic.
It takes time, intentionality, and conversation. The clarity in your mind, and the hope in your child’s eyes will make it all worth it!
Finally!! Stop “Hoping For The Best” As You Raise And Lead Your Family
You’re going to learn why many parents say “I don’t know how to guide my family!”
You’re going to get a chance to create a family motto that your family can rally around as you build and grow!
And you’re going to have a chance to decide what you say “YES” to, and also what you say "NO" to!
Be honest, if you’re tired of just trying to hold it all together with no vision, no plan, and no purpose...
Then you will want to continue reading this page to see how you can determine what is best for your family…
Because if you do not spend the time creating a family handbook (of sorts), then the culture around you will do it for you by default.
Before we continue, I want to be real clear:
Our family is not the “Expert”!!
We are in the battle with you.
We are participants...players on the field with you. That’s why…
You’re going to learn why many parents say “I don’t know how to guide my family!”
You’re going to get a chance to create a family motto that your family can rally around as you build and grow!
And you’re going to have a chance to decide what you say “YES” to, and also what you say "NO" to!
Be honest, if you’re tired of just trying to hold it all together with no vision, no plan, and no purpose...
Then you will want to continue reading this page to see how you can determine what is best for your family…
Because if you do not spend the time creating a family handbook (of sorts), then the culture around you will do it for you by default.
Before we continue, I want to be real clear:
Our family is not the “Expert”!!
We are in the battle with you.
We are participants...players on the field with you. That’s why…
The Adventure You’re About To Go On Is Not Like Anything You’ve Ever Seen Or Tried
What I teach is not something that we have developed in theory, rather we built it in the real world while sitting at our dinner table as a family on a Sunday in the summer of 2015.
There are all sorts of “professional” programs that offer you a quick-magic guide to family help.
This system is not quick, and it is not magic, but it will give you a gameplan to help you gain clarity on God’s purpose for your family.
Especially when you consider the real results that we have seen as we have…
Said “NO” To Good Things, And “YES” To The Best Things!
Seriously...we are really working this system and here are some examples of what has happened:
Using this system has allowed our family to say NO to fragmented weekends of travel sports where only one child received all of the attention and our family was separated.
Using this system has allowed us to say YES to picking up and moving and entire home in a purposed effort to spend more quiet time together.
Using this system has pushed us to spend more time together sitting down for dinner together whether it is at 4:45 in the afternoon, or 8:30 at night.
Using this system has encouraged other families to begin creating the same intentionality in their family, which is great because…
What I teach is not something that we have developed in theory, rather we built it in the real world while sitting at our dinner table as a family on a Sunday in the summer of 2015.
There are all sorts of “professional” programs that offer you a quick-magic guide to family help.
This system is not quick, and it is not magic, but it will give you a gameplan to help you gain clarity on God’s purpose for your family.
Especially when you consider the real results that we have seen as we have…
Said “NO” To Good Things, And “YES” To The Best Things!
Seriously...we are really working this system and here are some examples of what has happened:
Using this system has allowed our family to say NO to fragmented weekends of travel sports where only one child received all of the attention and our family was separated.
Using this system has allowed us to say YES to picking up and moving and entire home in a purposed effort to spend more quiet time together.
Using this system has pushed us to spend more time together sitting down for dinner together whether it is at 4:45 in the afternoon, or 8:30 at night.
Using this system has encouraged other families to begin creating the same intentionality in their family, which is great because…
It Really Does Take A Village To Raise A Child
When we lead a family without the support of other families, it gets much harder to install and implement helpful boundaries that you know will increase family time.
When you can give a strong example of your family values and show others how you create your own family and help define your destination…
It encourages other families to have healthy family relationships internally and externally.
When we lead a family without the support of other families, it gets much harder to install and implement helpful boundaries that you know will increase family time.
When you can give a strong example of your family values and show others how you create your own family and help define your destination…
It encourages other families to have healthy family relationships internally and externally.
I Use To Have A HUGE Struggle To Say “NO” To Good Things...
And sometimes I still do.
Sometimes I say “YES” not because I want to, but because I feel like I have to and fall to the pressure of…
-Not living up to my clients expectations
-Not living up to the local coach’s expectations
-Not living up to my Church’s expectations
-Not living up to your expectations
By defining what’s important for my family, and spending time around the dinner table discussing the importance of family relationships,
We have set some strong family values that we now use as the coffee filter of decision making.
When a decision comes, we run it through our strong family values, and then we feel more empowered to make decisions.
While not feel like we’re always disappointing friends and acquaintances around us.
And sometimes I still do.
Sometimes I say “YES” not because I want to, but because I feel like I have to and fall to the pressure of…
-Not living up to my clients expectations
-Not living up to the local coach’s expectations
-Not living up to my Church’s expectations
-Not living up to your expectations
By defining what’s important for my family, and spending time around the dinner table discussing the importance of family relationships,
We have set some strong family values that we now use as the coffee filter of decision making.
When a decision comes, we run it through our strong family values, and then we feel more empowered to make decisions.
While not feel like we’re always disappointing friends and acquaintances around us.
The Lightbulb Moment Where I Finally Said “Enough!”
Ashley and I woke up on vacation during the summer of 2015 and realized that our daughter was now less than four years away from graduating High School.
Less than four years!
We began bombarding ourselves with verbal and nonverbal questions,
-Have we messed it all up?
-Have we encouraged her like we should have?
-Have we disciplined her too much? Too little?
-Have we awakened or damaged the soul within?
- What do you think she will be doing in 10 years?
Wait a second!
What if we could help her think through that last question right now. What if we could ask her, “What do you think you will be doing in 10 years?
A Guidance Counselor recently asked her this question in a graduation planning meeting…
Ashley and I woke up on vacation during the summer of 2015 and realized that our daughter was now less than four years away from graduating High School.
Less than four years!
We began bombarding ourselves with verbal and nonverbal questions,
-Have we messed it all up?
-Have we encouraged her like we should have?
-Have we disciplined her too much? Too little?
-Have we awakened or damaged the soul within?
- What do you think she will be doing in 10 years?
Wait a second!
What if we could help her think through that last question right now. What if we could ask her, “What do you think you will be doing in 10 years?
A Guidance Counselor recently asked her this question in a graduation planning meeting…
If You Could Start Any Business You Want To, When You Grow Up, What Would It Be?
Ashley and I received a look from our daughter across the drab, brown library table where they Guidance Counselor was typing on her archaic, district-issued, personal computer.
The look said, “Um, that is a very broad question, could you elaborate PLEASE?!?!?!"
The Guidance Counselor then hastily said, “Well, if you are not sure, I will just pass over that question and move on.”
Our internal response was…
Ashley and I received a look from our daughter across the drab, brown library table where they Guidance Counselor was typing on her archaic, district-issued, personal computer.
The look said, “Um, that is a very broad question, could you elaborate PLEASE?!?!?!"
The Guidance Counselor then hastily said, “Well, if you are not sure, I will just pass over that question and move on.”
Our internal response was…
“Please Don’t Pass Over This (Or Any Other) Question!”
Even more crucial than, “what activity will you play next season” or “ where will you go to college”,
Is this question,
“What is our complete family vision!”
The vision is your destination...it is where you want to ultimately end up.
The Guidance Counselor was prompted to ask a vision-centered question, and when she saw confusion and potential discomfort, she skipped it and moved on to something more immediate.
Even more crucial than, “what activity will you play next season” or “ where will you go to college”,
Is this question,
“What is our complete family vision!”
The vision is your destination...it is where you want to ultimately end up.
The Guidance Counselor was prompted to ask a vision-centered question, and when she saw confusion and potential discomfort, she skipped it and moved on to something more immediate.
There Is Not Much More Immediate Than Determining Where You Are Going As Family
When we make the hard choice to sit down and work through some uncomfortable questions as a family,
It changes the game for generations!
Strong Jewish families were taught to take the commandments they were given and,
“Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up…
Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates.”
When we make the hard choice to sit down and work through some uncomfortable questions as a family,
It changes the game for generations!
Strong Jewish families were taught to take the commandments they were given and,
“Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up…
Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates.”
The Mistake That Many Modern Families Make Is The Same Mistake That ALL Families CAN Make For Generations...
They could either intentionally train their children,
Or they could not intentionally train their children.
If you want to have a…
-Defined Destination For Your Family
-Defined Purpose And Mission Statement For Your Family
-Guide To Leading Your Family
-Strong Family Quotes and Motto
-Set Of Family Values
The most important thing you need is to set aside time, free from distractions, where you and your family can get together and determine what is best for your family!
Here is the truth:
They could either intentionally train their children,
Or they could not intentionally train their children.
If you want to have a…
-Defined Destination For Your Family
-Defined Purpose And Mission Statement For Your Family
-Guide To Leading Your Family
-Strong Family Quotes and Motto
-Set Of Family Values
The most important thing you need is to set aside time, free from distractions, where you and your family can get together and determine what is best for your family!
Here is the truth:
Your Family Will Be Led By Someone Or Something
Will it be you to lead them?
Will it be you to help develop a family roadmap.
Even if you have the “perfect” spouse, or the “perfect” kids, we are assured that if we train up a child in the way he should go, he will not go far from it.
It makes sense then that if we do not have an intentional training plan, then he will likely stray from it.
Because we know that it is true that...
Will it be you to lead them?
Will it be you to help develop a family roadmap.
Even if you have the “perfect” spouse, or the “perfect” kids, we are assured that if we train up a child in the way he should go, he will not go far from it.
It makes sense then that if we do not have an intentional training plan, then he will likely stray from it.
Because we know that it is true that...
“Where There Is No Vision People Scatter”
Vision is a powerful mover of people
Vision compelled...
-God to create the world in 6 days
-Abraham to initiate the movement for the creation of Israel as a modern Nation-State
-Rome to conquer large pieces of geography
-Johannes Gutenberg to scale print capabilities into the Holy Roman Empire
-Michelangelo to craft the “David”
- All of the world’s dictators to oppress billions of people
-Steve Jobs & Steve Wozniak to engineer the machine that I am typing on, and Sam Schillace to create the software that I am using the write this (Google Docs)
Vision is so powerful, that without it people scatter and eventually drift away.
Don’t let your family scatter! Get into training mode now, at whatever stage you are at?
Are you a Grandparent? Lead your family in creating a purpose for their family!
Are you an Empty Nester? Lead your family in creating a purpose for your family!
Are you a parent of Tweens and Teens? Lead them in creating a purpose for their lives!
Are you a parent of small children? Lead them in creating a purpose for their lives!
Don’t leave them to chance. Give them a vision, and when you do...
Vision is a powerful mover of people
Vision compelled...
-God to create the world in 6 days
-Abraham to initiate the movement for the creation of Israel as a modern Nation-State
-Rome to conquer large pieces of geography
-Johannes Gutenberg to scale print capabilities into the Holy Roman Empire
-Michelangelo to craft the “David”
- All of the world’s dictators to oppress billions of people
-Steve Jobs & Steve Wozniak to engineer the machine that I am typing on, and Sam Schillace to create the software that I am using the write this (Google Docs)
Vision is so powerful, that without it people scatter and eventually drift away.
Don’t let your family scatter! Get into training mode now, at whatever stage you are at?
Are you a Grandparent? Lead your family in creating a purpose for their family!
Are you an Empty Nester? Lead your family in creating a purpose for your family!
Are you a parent of Tweens and Teens? Lead them in creating a purpose for their lives!
Are you a parent of small children? Lead them in creating a purpose for their lives!
Don’t leave them to chance. Give them a vision, and when you do...
“Write The Vision Down So That Those Who Read It May Run”
It is not good enough just to have the thought in your head and not act on it. In fact, it’s RUDE!
That’s right...RUDE!
Imagine if Wilbur and Orville Wright had the idea of flight and never shared it with us?
Imagine if Henry Ford had the idea of a mass-produced automobile and never shared it with us?
Imagine if Joe Pedott had the idea for the Chia Pet and never….
You get the point!
Here is the great news…
It is not good enough just to have the thought in your head and not act on it. In fact, it’s RUDE!
That’s right...RUDE!
Imagine if Wilbur and Orville Wright had the idea of flight and never shared it with us?
Imagine if Henry Ford had the idea of a mass-produced automobile and never shared it with us?
Imagine if Joe Pedott had the idea for the Chia Pet and never….
You get the point!
Here is the great news…
I’ve Done Most Of The “Heavy Lifting” For You Already…
After leading my family through the process, and thinking through all of the details of what you need in order to finally bring clarity to how you lead your family…
I’ve developed an exciting 3 Step roadmap any family can use to:
-Create Your Own Family Vision Story
-Create Your Own Family Mission Statement (Family Motto)
-Create Your Own Family Values
I’ve put this system inside training program I call, “How To Create A Family Vision”, and I’d like to share it with you right now…
After leading my family through the process, and thinking through all of the details of what you need in order to finally bring clarity to how you lead your family…
I’ve developed an exciting 3 Step roadmap any family can use to:
-Create Your Own Family Vision Story
-Create Your Own Family Mission Statement (Family Motto)
-Create Your Own Family Values
I’ve put this system inside training program I call, “How To Create A Family Vision”, and I’d like to share it with you right now…
Introducing:
“How To Create A Family Vision”
The 3 Step Roadmap For Leading Your Family To Say “NO” To Good Things, and “YES” To Great Things!
“How To Create A Family Vision”
The 3 Step Roadmap For Leading Your Family To Say “NO” To Good Things, and “YES” To Great Things!
The “How To Create A Family Vision” online course is a complete online video training that walks you step-by-step through the exact process I teach for you to create clarity for you and your family, and to implement that clarity.
Think of it as building a Family Vision Library that you and your family will implement that will have impact for generations!!
If you are leading a family, and you are unsatisfied with the direction your family is headed…
If you are satisfied with where you are at today, and want clarity moving forward…
If you are tired of your family falling victim to everyone else's agenda, the “How To Create A Family Vision” online course will show you how to change that!
Think of it as building a Family Vision Library that you and your family will implement that will have impact for generations!!
If you are leading a family, and you are unsatisfied with the direction your family is headed…
If you are satisfied with where you are at today, and want clarity moving forward…
If you are tired of your family falling victim to everyone else's agenda, the “How To Create A Family Vision” online course will show you how to change that!
“How To Create A Family Vision” Details
The “How To Create A Family Vision” online course is a series of 10 training episodes taught personally by me.
Each episode builds on the previous and I use a lot of practical examples...not to mention a bit of humor!
I won’t be your teacher...instead I’ll be your boat captain guiding you through the vast blue ocean of parenting where you will decide the ultimate destination!
You will also find a helpful PDF workbook that you will use to chronicle your journey. This PDF will likely become a document that gets passed down to generations!
NOTE: The online course is 100% digital so you will receive immediate access to the entire program as soon as you sign up!
Of course, you will also be able to print out the PDF so you can have that in hard copy.
Each episode builds on the previous and I use a lot of practical examples...not to mention a bit of humor!
I won’t be your teacher...instead I’ll be your boat captain guiding you through the vast blue ocean of parenting where you will decide the ultimate destination!
You will also find a helpful PDF workbook that you will use to chronicle your journey. This PDF will likely become a document that gets passed down to generations!
NOTE: The online course is 100% digital so you will receive immediate access to the entire program as soon as you sign up!
Of course, you will also be able to print out the PDF so you can have that in hard copy.
Here Is A Snapshot Of What You Will Learn Inside The Course…
-The 1 thing you should do right now before thinking about the future
- The 3 Step process that will give your family direction for generations
- The 10 must-ask questions to finally create the destination you want
- How we can kick out anxiety, and replace it with confidence and peace
- The reason you need to do this right now
- Why your kids WANT you to do this
- The tools you will need to “write the vision down so that those who read it may run”
-Countless examples of how to implement your Vision, Mission, and Values
- How to silence the voices in your head telling you NOT to do this
- An unedited look at our family’s original vision document
- How to come up with a Family Mission Statement and/or Family Motto
- Why family boundaries are so important, and how you can build them and live by them
-Create an action plan for turning your family vision into ACTION
“Vision without action is hallucination!” - Joe Calloway
-Other resources that you can use right away to help you build a family that is on purpose
-Ways that we limit the technology distractions that are all around us (aka - the dings, zings, and pings!)
- Where vision came from and how others have used it in the past to make major impact
-How we ask practitioners and NOT EXPERTS have created a plan for our family
- How to set aside a time and place to make this important family investment
-Why goal-setting is not enough to lead a family to where they want to go
Believe it or not, that is only a fraction of what we’re going to cover inside the “How To Create A Family Vision” online course.
This training is 10 episodes stuffed with me guiding you through this adventure in its entirety.
When you start my online course, you will…
-The 1 thing you should do right now before thinking about the future
- The 3 Step process that will give your family direction for generations
- The 10 must-ask questions to finally create the destination you want
- How we can kick out anxiety, and replace it with confidence and peace
- The reason you need to do this right now
- Why your kids WANT you to do this
- The tools you will need to “write the vision down so that those who read it may run”
-Countless examples of how to implement your Vision, Mission, and Values
- How to silence the voices in your head telling you NOT to do this
- An unedited look at our family’s original vision document
- How to come up with a Family Mission Statement and/or Family Motto
- Why family boundaries are so important, and how you can build them and live by them
-Create an action plan for turning your family vision into ACTION
“Vision without action is hallucination!” - Joe Calloway
-Other resources that you can use right away to help you build a family that is on purpose
-Ways that we limit the technology distractions that are all around us (aka - the dings, zings, and pings!)
- Where vision came from and how others have used it in the past to make major impact
-How we ask practitioners and NOT EXPERTS have created a plan for our family
- How to set aside a time and place to make this important family investment
-Why goal-setting is not enough to lead a family to where they want to go
Believe it or not, that is only a fraction of what we’re going to cover inside the “How To Create A Family Vision” online course.
This training is 10 episodes stuffed with me guiding you through this adventure in its entirety.
When you start my online course, you will…
Leverage Our Experiences And Mistakes As We Have Led Our Family So You Can Lower The Learning Curve To Create YOUR VISION
If you’re like most parents, the reason you have not done this already is because you don’t know where to start.
We have taken care of that for you. I start from the beginning and walk with you through the very end as you create your plan for implementation.
When you register for the “How To Create A Family Vision” online course, you leverage the work that we’ve already done for you, and you will cut the learning down to a small fraction of what it would have taken you.
This system is creating freedom and clarity for families, so you can be expecting to see the same results.
In fact, if you work through the program, and implement your family plan, I guarantee that you will march on to your vision!
If you’re like most parents, the reason you have not done this already is because you don’t know where to start.
We have taken care of that for you. I start from the beginning and walk with you through the very end as you create your plan for implementation.
When you register for the “How To Create A Family Vision” online course, you leverage the work that we’ve already done for you, and you will cut the learning down to a small fraction of what it would have taken you.
This system is creating freedom and clarity for families, so you can be expecting to see the same results.
In fact, if you work through the program, and implement your family plan, I guarantee that you will march on to your vision!
This Is Not Your Grandmother's Online Course
Ok, well your Grandmother has likely never taken an online course.
What I mean is that this will not be a high-science look into the state of the modern family today.
We KNOW where the family is today. We have plenty people talking to us about it…
Ok, well your Grandmother has likely never taken an online course.
What I mean is that this will not be a high-science look into the state of the modern family today.
We KNOW where the family is today. We have plenty people talking to us about it…
IT’S TIME TO ACT AND KEEP ON ACTING!
It is not good enough to simply hear and be done. We need to hear and act.
You WILL be able to act on what I am going to teach you…
Not just act now, but also for years to come.
Vision was acted on by God himself when he created this world through a vision.
Vision is not a novel, Harvard Business, Peter Drucker theory. Heck no!
Vision has been with us for a long time which also means that, unlike modern technology, the content of this course will never “expire”.
The “How To Create A Family Vision” online course will continue to pay freedom and clarity dividends for you family for generations.
It is not good enough to simply hear and be done. We need to hear and act.
You WILL be able to act on what I am going to teach you…
Not just act now, but also for years to come.
Vision was acted on by God himself when he created this world through a vision.
Vision is not a novel, Harvard Business, Peter Drucker theory. Heck no!
Vision has been with us for a long time which also means that, unlike modern technology, the content of this course will never “expire”.
The “How To Create A Family Vision” online course will continue to pay freedom and clarity dividends for you family for generations.
Implement What You Learn In This Course For An Entire Year And If You Don’t Start Having Clarity And Saying “No” To Good Things, And “Yes” To Great Things, I’ll Give You A Full Refund
I’m so confident that once you start using this system in your own family, you will experience a clarity and freedom that you have not had before, I’m going to guarantee it.
Here’s my guarantee to you:
When you register for the “How To Create A Family Vision” online course you’ll have an entire year to go through the training and use this system in your family.
If you go through all the modules, do your family follow ups, and seriously implement your action items and you have not gained clarity and freedom for your family, and I’ll give you a full refund.
I am not only highlighting how valuable my system is, but also highlighting how important it is to implement the plan and stick to it.
That’s how confident I am once you learn this system and apply it to your family you’ll start seeing results — and I can’t think of a more fair and reasonable offer than that.
I’m so confident that once you start using this system in your own family, you will experience a clarity and freedom that you have not had before, I’m going to guarantee it.
Here’s my guarantee to you:
When you register for the “How To Create A Family Vision” online course you’ll have an entire year to go through the training and use this system in your family.
If you go through all the modules, do your family follow ups, and seriously implement your action items and you have not gained clarity and freedom for your family, and I’ll give you a full refund.
I am not only highlighting how valuable my system is, but also highlighting how important it is to implement the plan and stick to it.
That’s how confident I am once you learn this system and apply it to your family you’ll start seeing results — and I can’t think of a more fair and reasonable offer than that.
